From Alfie (Alfie Indra) of UK
See Alfie's interview here where he talks about his experience of RJ OCD on Jaack Maate https://youtu.be/WvTlsE7E3TA
See Alfie's interview here where he talks about his experience of RJ OCD on Jaack Maate https://youtu.be/WvTlsE7E3TA
From rob of the UK
Hadley Testimonial.
I had regular calls with Hadley for a few months to originally help with OCD/RJ.
But, he would also support me in the form of relationship counselling as well as working on various aspect of myself.
I found Hadley to be a good listener, understanding and gave supportive input.
He went at my pace but also directed me with where I needed to go.
The flexible supportive text messages between appointment calls were really helpful and I felt I had someone there who was objective to the chaos in my life.
I never felt judged or uncomfortable.
Hadley was compassionate, empathetic, motivating and in tune with me and genuinely cared.
I’d look forward to our calls.
I’d open up, bringing emotions even closer to the surface. This was therapeutic, cathartic and was needed as part of the work and healing. You don’t feel alone in that. We went at my pace and I chose how much and what I wanted to open up about.
Hadley provides a supportive, caring, relaxed and understanding environment for this and sheds light on aspects of psychology, behaviour, maladaptive thought patterns and beliefs.
I appreciate all of his help and support.
I’m now in a much better place.
Thank you Hadley.
From CHIRS of Canada
Hadley,
Hello sir. I hope all is well with you and your family. I just wanted to write to thank you for everything you've done for me. As you're aware I struggled with RJ for almost a quarter century. I saw more than a few therapists but none of them were able to accomplish 1% of what you were able to do. I will forever be grateful. I am so happy to know that I have turned a corner with my issues. I am truly optimistic that I am in a much better place now to deal with future RJ and anxiety/OCD related issues. Also I promise to continue to work on me.
If you're ever in Canada drop me a line. I can hook you up with some killer maple syrup (jk I can't).
All the best,
Chris
Hadley,
Hello sir. I hope all is well with you and your family. I just wanted to write to thank you for everything you've done for me. As you're aware I struggled with RJ for almost a quarter century. I saw more than a few therapists but none of them were able to accomplish 1% of what you were able to do. I will forever be grateful. I am so happy to know that I have turned a corner with my issues. I am truly optimistic that I am in a much better place now to deal with future RJ and anxiety/OCD related issues. Also I promise to continue to work on me.
If you're ever in Canada drop me a line. I can hook you up with some killer maple syrup (jk I can't).
All the best,
Chris
From ANNE of UK/France
Hi Hadley,
I have worked with Hadley on a weekly basis for a few months, during our sessions Hadley has offered a safe place for us to explore and understand the very roots of my RJ. Thanks to his expertise and compassionate approach I have made incredible progress, and started feeling a lot better very quickly. Today, my RJ is under control and I can finally live the life I always wanted to live.
Thank you! :)
Anne
From Chris C of US
Hey Hadley.
I think it's a shame for a person to never know what difference they have made on people. So I'll say this..... I'm happier after meeting you and grateful for the work done. And as morbid as it may sound, you have kept me from ******** * *** ****** to sleep at night. You do amazing work and I'm thankful for our conversations and huge progress I have made.
I hope to catch up with you soon. I miss that hairy face.
Thanks you!
Chris
Hey Hadley.
I think it's a shame for a person to never know what difference they have made on people. So I'll say this..... I'm happier after meeting you and grateful for the work done. And as morbid as it may sound, you have kept me from ******** * *** ****** to sleep at night. You do amazing work and I'm thankful for our conversations and huge progress I have made.
I hope to catch up with you soon. I miss that hairy face.
Thanks you!
Chris
From Matt H
I found retr-act.com after another sleepless night where it felt like I was getting kicked in by RJ. I'd worked through a couple of the online courses out there and found them useful, but they weren't getting to the core of what was causing my RJ. I'd feel better for a while and then the RJ would come thundering back.
I was connected with my therapist Dawn. She's fully present, very insightful, and with a lovely sense of humour. She helped me identify some early childhood experiences that have been the source of my relationship anxiety. She guided me through a thorough program to help me tackle the OCD aspects of RJ, and provided great accountability to keep me disciplined with the daily tasks.
It's now been a few weeks since I've experienced any big activation. I'm feeling like I have control of the RJ instead of it having control over me. I'm also feeling its presence starting to fade. It's a huge fucking relief. The work I've done with Dawn has positive resonances in other parts of my relationship life too. Thank you Dawn, I'm massively grateful to you, and to Mark.
From Matt H
I found retr-act.com after another sleepless night where it felt like I was getting kicked in by RJ. I'd worked through a couple of the online courses out there and found them useful, but they weren't getting to the core of what was causing my RJ. I'd feel better for a while and then the RJ would come thundering back.
I was connected with my therapist Dawn. She's fully present, very insightful, and with a lovely sense of humour. She helped me identify some early childhood experiences that have been the source of my relationship anxiety. She guided me through a thorough program to help me tackle the OCD aspects of RJ, and provided great accountability to keep me disciplined with the daily tasks.
It's now been a few weeks since I've experienced any big activation. I'm feeling like I have control of the RJ instead of it having control over me. I'm also feeling its presence starting to fade. It's a huge fucking relief. The work I've done with Dawn has positive resonances in other parts of my relationship life too. Thank you Dawn, I'm massively grateful to you, and to Mark.
From M from Wales, UK
I started therapy to help tackle my RJ around 5 months ago and I couldn’t recommend it enough. I started the course with an anxiety level of around 9/10 and suffered with panic attacks and awful anxiety all to do with RJ. After the sessions with Dawn my anxiety level lowered to about a 3/4! The sessions help with how to manage RJ, the cause, tools and resources to get through it and more. I’m very grateful to Dawn and I am now starting the journey of going without therapy and using what I’ve learnt and been given to manage my anxiety and feelings. It hasn’t healed me completely but has definitely helped an awful lot and I wouldn’t be where I am now without it!